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Old Oct 05, 2014, 06:34 AM
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Hi H3rmit, do you think maybe it's more the type of people you're struggling to relate to?? Afterall you are relating to some people on here aren't you, and them to you??
And there are always going to be people we relate to much better than others.
Now if your quieter, don't have that connection with some people (maybe you don't even want that connection with some people), can't take things anywhere with some people...........it may hold you back a bit but it really doesn't have to hold you completely back.
Maybe sometimes you'll have to "go through the motions", kind of pick up what you're "expected" to be saying and go with it, but you can still "go places" without that bond with a lot (?) of people. There's still scope for you to do things your own way/to find your own path.
And relating a bit better to people............maybe with some practice, asking them questions, trying to put yourself more "in their shoes".........maybe.
And it's perhapsin finding people who are going to value you...........OK if you've problems relating to people there will be people who don't mind if you misinterpret some things/don't communicate as much..........and they'll stick with you and help with that because they'll know you're worth it, and there will be people who will relate to you out there too, who do "get you".
Like maybe some of us on here have???

Alison