Ready, my regret is that I made it somehow unsafe for you to post and get support. You should be free to post about things that make you sad or upset without feeling like you are somehow imposing on others. Because you are not. The incident would not be upsetting for me at all if I did not like you so much. I did not articulate what I was intending as support in a supportive way.

So I hope you do feel free to post about things that upset you in the future. Please just let me know what responses (if any) might be helpful and not make you feel like you need to not post or delete. I really don't want to make things worse.