The therapist is an ex-therapist for a reason and hell no I never want her as my therapist again! I remember in one session she told me about his behavior that he has to be the one to make the change as I can't do anything for him. She also said maybe there is something in his life that he is missing could be something from his dad that he never got and I said something he saw in the Air Force back in 01 that he saw or whatever that could be another big problem right there.

That was the only solid piece of real life advice she ever gave me the rest was all fluff which is why her and I always argued as I could've conducted the sessions by myself and could've taught her a lot of things (she is in my age group)! Couple of people I know in person told me the same thing that it looks like you need a change and you seem to be growing more and more.