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You shouldn't stay with someone or jump into a relationship with someone else. It makes you put up with stupid things you don't deserve. You'll see the guy manipulating you but you look the other way because of fear of the unknown. They end up stringing you along…but you're the crazy one for having standards.

I don't know him and I don't want to be discouraging but Army guy seems really comfortable being close to someone else's girlfriend and you are very vulnerable right now. I personally don't trust people who don't respect others' relationships. Would he go off to Texas to do the same to you? Is he already involved? Ultimately, it is totally up to you as to what you decide to do and I hope whatever you choose turns out for the best.