He is single he told me he was on the verge of marrying this ex gf of his who he wanted her to wait for him until he got back to the state we live in and he found out she was with someone else. I told Army guy not to lie to me and he told me you just don't seem happy in your relationship like it's not going anywhere. Army guy said he wants an answer as he don't know how long he is gonna be gone since he re-enlisted in the Army for another 3 yrs as anything can happen between now and then. Army guy said I have always cared about you just don't like your boyfriend I told him you should have told me a few years ago about your feelings for me or better yet 10 yrs ago we should have worked everything out and we would still be a couple.

I mean, I've never been a military guy's girlfriend in my life. All of my life, I have watched my idiot mom be in a miserable marriage with my dead beat dad saw the **** she put up with telling her own daughters this is how you stay in a marriage never lose your identity! Anyway, Army guy did say it's up to me as to what I want to do....