Everytime my husband puts forth a negative opinion related to something I am doing that is nice and congenial I get upset. I feel like it just ruins things. It steals the moment. It takes the joy and pleasure out. I wish it didn't spoil things so. I wish I could be stronger and even lighter hearted. He says he doesn't mean it that way and he is always sorry. I get so pained inwardly. I am much too effected. I have spoken to him about using positive words even if he has a different need or opinion. I wish I could respond with more inquiry and understanding. Life does not always go just the way I want it to..I would like to deal with it better so that it doesn't cause so much pain.