Ugh! What a rough time of it!

I don't think it's unusual for men to not be expressive. It is odd that your husband struggled to answer your questions. He may have felt like he was put on the spot and was afraid of giving the wrong answer in stead of just speaking from his heart.

The comment about your skin is not unusual in my experience. Men tend to value skin that is soft and clear. I don't think size 14 is all that big. A lot of men like women with "meat on their bones." Skinny women may look better in clothes to them but they don't like how skinny women feel in bed. Again, just my experience.

Is for the terrible sex, I feel your pain. I had never had a bad partner in bed until my last boyfriend. It was like being humped by a dog. I tried to teach him, but he refused to do things the way that made me feel good. And he wondered why I wouldn't do things he wanted! He also had a habit of grabbing my crotch while other people were around. This was especially embarrassing when done in front of my mom. He never backed off from that. Needless to say, I broke up with him pretty quickly.