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Originally Posted by lilypup
My husband does mention my soft skin a lot. But he mentions other things too. And I am bigger than a 14.
This sounds like typical poor communication after being married a long while. I think most of us have it. It takes work to keep things alive and sometimes it is just too much of an effort.
If he is worth it, you can do it! HUGS!
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That's nice that your husband mentions other things as well. I know that communication is a problem sometimes in our marriage. I'm as direct as I can be with him, but it gets to be so frustrating at times when I feel like he's tuning me out and not even listening to me most of the time. I'll have to repeat myself after he asks me the same question at times.
I know that he's not hard of hearing. It does hurt to be ignored and treated like I don't matter at times though. He was never that emotional to begin with, so I guess that his response wasn't to shocking. Yes, it does take work to make any relationship work. I don't think that I'm expecting to much from him though. He is good in other ways I'll admit such as being reliable most of the time, a hard worker, and more, so I guess I should be fortunate for that.