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Oct 05, 2014, 08:59 PM
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Sorry to hear about how insensitive your husband can be at times. Have you talked to him about how this makes you feel? If not, you should. Most men are visual, and they are wired differently than us in some ways. I'm no expert on men, but it's normal for most men, even the ones in committed relationships to look at attractive women.
My husband used to look at porn all the time. Especially when he was upset or mad at me. Eventually I stopped getting upset at him looking at porn. I even told him that it's OK if he subscribes to playboy or watch adult films after awhile. Well, soon after that, he stopped doing that as far as I know. When I see him looking at other women, I just laugh at him and call him a dirty old man when he's looking at a girl half his age!
Of course, you don't have to go that far. You can just ignore it and not get upset about it. I know that can hard to do at times, but it can be done. I have had a talk with my husband about how I'd appreciate it if he could not make it so obvious when he's checking out a woman in public. I told him that it's rude and that it makes him look kind of creepy at times, so now I rarely notice him checking out other women. Not that I mind that much, it's just rude to be so obvious about it.
Remember, just because a man looks at another woman, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love or desire you. Most men do look no matter who they're with or how attractive they are. If you change how you react to him the way that I did, then maybe he'll change some of his ways as well-
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