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Originally Posted by hvert
I don't care about pictures or videos - he doesn't do it in front of me, and if he does, it's just to provoke me (in a humorous way). I do get annoyed if I catch him looking at people walking by when he's with me. I think that it's normal to do it, but it shouldn't be obvious.
Have you told your husband that you don't want him to do this in front of you or let you know he's doing it?
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Yes, we've talked about this earlier on in our relationship, and throughout. He has apologized for this behaviour earlier on, and we've talked about it a lot. The problem is, "ME." I am trying to get to a place where I don't feel insecure about any of this stuff that's out there. I know he loves me, and that is what's important. In the past, he made it obvious, but presently, he tries to hide it. I know he's not meaning to hurt my feelings. And we do talk about it. I know it's a healthy and normal behaviour for men to look etc., as well as women who want to do that too, but the real issue is "Me," because I'm having a hard time accepting it. I am working on accepting this side of my husband, and trying to look pass it all, and just love him. We are all not perfect, and can't please everyone we are in a relationship with, but the important thing is to be respectful and loving to the person you are sharing your life with. He does do this most of the time.
Today, I focused on having a good day, and being happy with him. Once my confidence level is up, this stuff probably won't bother me as much.