It's not really. I'm trying very hard to get everything done so my H can't do things "for me". I don't need a frickin thing from him and it pisses me off when he does things on my list. To top it all off...he knows it and does it anyway. I usually stay up late to make sure the house is as perfect as I can make it. It gives me something to do to make sure he is good and asleep before I come to bed.

This is why I drove home yesterday cause I was not asking him for any help of any kind and it wasn't really worth that...it would have been nice to see the ocean but wasn't worth the price.

ETA...I know I'm weird.