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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie
47......no female friends and can't seem to even get them to go shopping with me or even do girly things together. I give up. I do try. I hang out at the gym in a group and chat their chat. Someon suggested I come off as an alpha female and that keeps others at a distance. It could be an invisible wall I have up that puts out this vibe. Meet up groups are something my T suggested but anything I was interested in was 40 miles away like the small dog meet up.
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I'm sorry to hear that-
Although I do have four female friends with now, they can't go out that often, or they don't want to sometimes. I'm fine with going shopping by myself. I know that there are a few fashion and clothing groups on meetup.com, so maybe you can look into that? You have to keep looking and click on as many interests as you can to find out about the lastest meetups near you that might interest you.
Although I'm shy, I have managed to find four female friends on there since I joined the site a few years ago. Maybe you'd be better off looking for women who are also strong alpha female types. Are there any classes in your area that you can take to meet new women? Have you tried making the first move by inviting someone out? It's hard finding other women to become friends with as you get older, that's for sure!
It doesn't help that some women seem to be very picky when it comes to who they end up chosing as friends. Sometimes I get the feeling I'm being dismissed and rejected for not being a certain way. It's just this weird feeling that I get. Maybe me not having kids has something to do with it. It's hard to say for sure.