So, we have even more problems…when it comes to intercourse, it hurts for 5-10 seconds or so and then either I don't feel much or it's completely over. Unfortunately, he usually can't help getting off before he's hard enough to penetrate me and even if he is able to, he usually gets off as soon as he's inside of me or within seconds of doing so. So, I don't really want to have intercourse anymore as it's almost always just a few seconds of pain and I don't want to risk pregnancy over that. I already know I'm not going to be able to get off that way…I don't even have time to relax enough for it not to hurt, unless it's SUPPOSED to hurt the first several times.

I just don't want to hurt his feelings…it's not like he's doing it on purpose. Not to mention how self-conscious he is about it. It's at least partly an anxiety thing on his part as well. I don't really know what to do to help other than try to reassure him afterwards so he doesn't feel like a failure.

Also, I still can't orgasm in any other way. I think it's starting to frustrate him too. I mean, he's tried everything he already knew and more.