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Trust me,I don't like him laying up with his wife....or any other woman.All told it disgusts me.I am damn angry at myself for getting in to this ,and for letting this man hurt me and break my heart.Is there a man out there that is capable of the truth?Step forward,please,I would like to hear your two cents...
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Well there are two parts to this IMO:

a) You can't control who you're attracted to

b) You can control who you _ _ _ _.

And IMO? There are very few men who will not stray even just a little - esp with the dominence of the internet.

There are a LOT of men who will remain faithful physically and mostly mentally to their women.

There are a few who will not be faithful in either way, except maybe materially (e.g. they won't leave their wife because it is too difficult financially, don't wanna lose / split assets / etc).

Me, I don't like to share, and I've been burnt once, I swore never ever ever again.

I wish you all the best, but don't forget that it takes two to tango and he is clearly messing with your head.