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Organization is a skill that either gets developed or not very well. A big complaint of some of the familes I work with is that their child is not organized. They do not clean their room...and so on. If this skill is not well developed...it is very difficult to clean your room without good organizational skills!! A child/individual is not necessarily being defiant or lazy!
It's nice to know that some of you have others that are undersanding and are willing to help you instead of shaming you. Others are figuring it out on there own - whatever works best for you is "your" answer.
In general some skills to do get very well developed. My ablilites in art are not very well developed same with music (although I love to listen to music & dance - just cannot sing or read it).
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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