Hi,

I've recently met a girl, she's from the same course in my University and we've been together very often for almost a month now. We click really well and have many common interests and at times think about the exact same thing, we have a lot of fun etc. She's unlike any girl I've ever met and she's basically glued to me.

This is where it gets sad. If I'd push it forward, we'd make a great couple. The problem is, she doesn't arouse me. Her appearance. She has great hair, I love her hair. I just can't find the physical attraction in her.. and I'm so disappointed.

We've gone so far that I know stuff about her which makes "telling her off" impossibly difficult for me. Every day I think about her, I think how great she is and at the same time I don't think I deserve her, I feel like I'm just getting her hopes up. Moreover, if I'm together with her all the time, while in Uni & while out drinking, people start to think we're a thing and I couldn't chat up any other gals and so on.

Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How'd it go? What did you feel like, what did you do? I just feel like I'm running every day into a wall.