When I met my husband I was not attracted to him physically for the longest time. It was very troubling for me because I felt so differently about him compared to anyone I had ever met before. We had a connection that I had never experienced before with someone, but then what made it so confusing for me was I had NO physical attraction to him. Eventually it did happen and we have been together for twelve years so far. This is just my experience, and it may not be the case for you.