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I usually like to EXCESSIVELY have fun with people, I am a people pleaser, many people said that I have a sense of humor, but actually I like to make people laugh, I am not silly or crown.
Specially with coworkers this caused me some disrespect from them, and for sure I see this is normal to disrespect someone who is telling jokes most of the time, other times for sure I am serious.
I want to change this, I do not know how, but when I stop laughing people think I have been changed and I stopped loving them.
I am really in a problem, all people have fun sometimes, but when you do it much you lose your respect. I understand this very well.
Another point, I have a coworker on Facebook, who I believe do not like my posts, and many times he humiliates me in front of others, every time I forgive him, and he does it again, now I want to unfriend him, would this be a good idea?
I got tired from dealing with all people around me and I really want to be self employed to limit my interaction, I want to live alone, even all people I respect and like change by time. What a miserable life.
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