My husband and I did an open relationship back in 2011, and it didn't end well. He asked me to stop being with the person I was seeing a week before he came home, and I did not. I was mad because while deployed he made a fake account to talk to women. So he came home and our open relationship turned bad. I was to jealous to handle it after he had done things. So we started over just us. Well we were moved to Korea, and stayed there for 2 years. I had found a grind there and she had marital issues so she was at our place a lot. I had noticed looks and things, but when I would mention it they both denied it, and made me feel like ****. I came home to the states to set up our new home, and my decided to tell me the day my husband is to come home that they had an affair. It went on for 7 months. She would give me sleeping meds so they could sneak off and have sex, and I do not know what to do. He feels it was revenge for how our open relationship ended, and like a demon is gone from him. He will never do it again, and is sooooo sorry. I am so damaged, and can only think of them and all the possibilities my brain can imagine. We bought a house and moved to a new states, and the I find all this out. WTH am I supposed to do??????