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I was appalled at the human service workers saying that you don't look like you have epilepsy....I mean what the hell is that all about??? I can definitely say that those people are in the WRONG business!!!! I'm in human services too and work with a large section of folks with different disabilities. Not once, would I EVER think of something like that......god that just makes my blood boil! If that happened to me, I probably would have looked them right in the eyes and asked them "What in the world is a person with epilepsy supposed to look like????" That would have stopped them in their tracks I'm sure.

I'm so sorry to hear of the abuse you had to endure from your family. The ignorance of some people always amazes me.

I have worked for almost two years with an individual with epilepsy. She has some brain damage from a fall she took as an 8 year old child, and the elipesy has done some damage too. But she has raised 4 children and lives on her own and does the best she can do. I have the utmost respect for all she endures and has endured from her family through the years. She is strong yet has a low self esteem because of it all. I have seen a big change in her since I started working with her. I do everything I can to help her understand just how valuable a person she is, how smart she is and how capable she is. She has grown a lot due to her hard work. I am very proud of her and her accomplishments.

I'm sure you are a very capable individual. Who amoung us does not have problems in their lives to overcome? What doesn't kill us makes us stronger and a better person. You are strong, brave and intelligent....and should be respected as a human being who has a lot to offer this world. (just like all of us!!!)

I hope you can turn a blind eye towards those who would try to make you feel like less of a person because of your illness. Hold your head high, and consider the source when people try to put you down. They are little people who can't or won't take the time to learn and understand. They are the disabled ones who refuse to be enlightened and treat others with respect and compassion. I actually feel sorry for them! For they are the ones who are truly disabled in their way of thinking and acting!!!

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J