((((Bebop)))) What do his doctors say? Can you be there with your dad and have the doctor explain it all to you together? Then you are all operating on the same information. Perhaps your dad is "just" afraid of what it will be like to live ... most of us fear the unknown, it's a powerful force. Maybe your dad "knows" he will be a burden and rather than do that to anyone, he would rather go? Logic often wins out on these things... and plenty of love.