Am 27 and sadly because of her, I still live with her over financial issues . She is far from a mother to me and my sister. She just can't stand to see anyone happy besides herself. She never tells me or my sister she loves us except if we do something for her or hardly ever. She has given us through hell growing up.she has blamed my sister attempted suicide on me her failed marriage on me.(which was her fault cause she cheated) and I don't need her to pretend to be a mother to me now. I gonna do what I want from now on. She will no longer control or manipulate my life.