(((((((((((((RAYNA))))))))))))
I am sorry that your father felt the need to make you feel inferior with his remarks. There is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need help from your family, you are not mooching off of your grandmother, you are needy right now for her financial assistance, and you also spend a lot of time with your grandmother running errands and helping your grandmother in other areas. I feel that the money is deserved because you work for the money by helping your grandmother, and there is no reason to have to feel guilty for letting your grandmother help you out when it is needed. Take care and good day. Soidhonia