Except for the depressions, I feel you. I don't really go on dates. I don't know how to ask and I haven't been asked. I mean, I have gone out with boys after we started hooking up, for a beer or dinner, but it never felt like a date. Even had a friends with benefits the last year of high school whom I used to dine out with, none of us had any feelings though so it was all really casual. Therefore I don't really know how to date, how to act on a date, what is expected etc. I think if someone asked me I would just screw all those rules and be me - eat what I wanted, preferrably pay for myself (I hate it when others pay, feels like I can't order what I want), and not just talk about boring subjects. I don't know. I have ever really either been casual/single or in a relationship, going on a date with someone you're not serious with seems weird to me, if I went on a date with someone, would it mean I was interested in them? These things makes me wonder if I would dare to say yes if asked :P