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Does directing the anger and pain at the original source seperate us from these internalised mothers? Do we hold them at some level inside us, relating to them still as if it was back then? Afriad to let go of them?

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Just wanted to say that your post buffaloed me.... and I wish I could answer this particular question. Who are we really yelling or mad at? This is becoming an issue I can connect with with my current work.

The jury is still out but that is a good question.

Not to make too light of the two mother thing... How lucky are you? Then can you distinguish which mother you are ticked with?

Yikes...sometimes I am mad with my mom and sometimes with both parents.

This is interesting but this drives me nuts sometimes. I wish it would stop. Sometimes the legacy plucks my nerves.