Hi Calm, actually my relationship with my adoptive mother today is ok, the best its ever been, due to my therapy, and the knock on effect is that my mother has been taught by me how to treat me now.

If she annoys me disrepects me in the here and now, I can deal with it, so this is diffinately past issues anger that is festering away in a time warp inside of us. Its like a drama is being played out non stop inside of us and needs really getting too, to find the off switch.