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Oct 07, 2014, 11:48 AM
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Member Since: Feb 2012
Location: From Egypt, journeying in America
Posts: 244
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All the advice you've been given here volga are great 
I just wanna add that give it a try & talk with him (either before or after you give birth, according to which suits you more), you're not gonna lose anything by talking with him, trying to understand, even though I'm definitely not justifying at all what he's done.
Maybe he's got a sexual problem, addiction, etc. Anyway, you MUST get the support you're entitled to from him according to what your legal aid will tell you, like everyone here says Even if you have to be only separated from him, without getting an official divorce paper, it's better than returning to your country clueless of what to do when you already got used to life in America...
Also, if you feel you don't love him anymore, don't feel bad about the baby, 'cause if you live together in the same house having fights & hatred between you that would definitely NOT be a healthy environment for the baby. Instead, you could find somebody else who really loves you or even live alone with the baby, & in either case that would be a much calmer & loving environment for the baby to grow up in ♥
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