I see a lot of posts saying that people don't feel like their T cares about them...

If I look at my other relationships in my life, each person shows they care in a different way.

My older sister: I'm allowed in her house, says hi to me, and invites me to all her selling parties (candles, charms, etc.)

My Pdoc: she smiles, she hand-wrote treatment goals, hugs, goes over time.

An ex-payee: let me spend time with her, smiles, hugs, let me hold her hand when she cried.

It is different for each person.

Hmm...maybe ya'll should read The Five Love Languages. It helps identify the different ways people show love...but it will also show how different people care in different ways.