I can't speak on the whole virgin thing as I lost it before I even knew what it was, but that's a rant for another thread. However, seeing as where I have come from, I can honestly say that the whole concept of virginity, in my opinion, is a bunch of man made bunk. Yes, sex SHOULD be special, but the truth is that more often than not, the first time is awkward at best, or just plan bad at worst. That is, there is WAAY too much emphasis put on the first time. The truth is that the best sex, love making, whatever you want to call it, comes after you've been with your partner and know the ins and outs of what completely turns him on, and conversely when he knows how to drive you wild as well.

Ignore your friends who say that using toys means you won't O with a man! Toys are the reason that I am able to be comfortable enough to O with a man. So, keep on enjoying those toys.