You can check their background and history, and that helps. I think eventually it comes down to you knowing what is appropriate or inappropriate, and knowing what you will say or do if you suspect a T of being inappropriate. It probably won't happen to you again, but even if you do get someone who tries something that isn't right, you know now that it would hurt you to permit it, and you have the strength to put an end to it before it starts, and get help someplace else. I guess you have to work on trusting yourself.

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