Simply looking at porn is cheating?!?! (No, you're not an addict...) I guess I don't get it. Lots of guys look at porn. If I refused to date a guy who ever looked at porn, I'd never date! I get that your wife is against porn, but I honestly think this is being blown up into something greater than it is. Its not like you're going out an having sex with random women you picked up at a bar.

I get that you feel bad, but I think you're beating yourself up for it just a little too much.