Thanks everyone. I actually met my friend here on pc. Lots of complications, we are both married so its an affair, we live about 5 states apart and we really want to meet, figuring out how is the problem. I asked for a divorce but backed off as my husband reacted in a scary way. I didnt ask because of my friend, there is a lot of history behind my husband and me that isnt good. Thus looking outside the marriage for love and attention.