Well... He was able to text you.... on the phone I assume. Seems interesting that he was not able to email but was able to text you. Sorry ... maybe he offered more than he was able to put out while he was gone. Did he get your emails? I think that you should review those and what you were sharing in those emails. You were sharing alot in those emails per your report.
I also think that you feel scattered. You fear that your people are not being taken care of. I think you need to go backward before you can go forward. I suppose that would be how I would feel myself.... and I think I see it with your situation. When your people feel heard about how you felt in his absence then you can deal with that and move forward. Ignoring that period of time is not realistic IMO.
If he wished to maintain contact I am sure he has your phone number ... and could have called or texted at that time.
Maybe I might ask if he was doing this over would he promise to keep in touch.
Hang in.... It is hard to feel bonded when you feel abandoned....
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