Thread: Father's Abuse
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Old Oct 08, 2014, 04:19 AM
jjishere jjishere is offline
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Originally Posted by Living Dead Guy View Post
Don't feel guilty you did your best, personally I wouldn't bother sending anything. Some people will never change and he sounds like one. See his final words to you as what they are, yet another sign of being in control. He couldn't let you hang up on him, he needed to be the one to end everything.

If you need closure there are two options I can suggest the first is to write a letter then burn it. The other is to attend his funeral. I know those are not the most pleasant options but they are the ones that won't leave you a victim yet again.

You are right. He couldn't let me hang up ... he had to have his final say in his email. Exactly. No not pleasant options at all. There isn't going to be a service and the burial is too far away. I can't go due to agoraphobia. Anyway no closure once they are gone. It just sucks.

thanks for responding. I appreciate it
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