My definition of sobriety is slightly different but AA meetings saved my life before. for many reasons one being meetings were difficult to get to I year by year let my program go until now I am at bottom and starting only my 2nd day sober. I can't , He can, I think Ill let him was the first thing that made sense to me when I was trying to understand the first 3 steps. Watch that last step it's a doozy.