Thanks Carrie,
I have already asked her to stop... constantly disagreeing with everything I say, rolling her eyes, criticizing the way I dress- too dressed up, too slobby ( not going out to eat with you in my hometown... embarrassed by your dress) , Christmas presents I bring home.... even a computer and printer for them (parents) ...She said "I didnt want one, was going to buy it myself later,etc etc etc" (NOT... they couldnt afford it, and they believed a computer was too hard to learn at their age )... she criticizes gifts I buy for siblings.... on and on... til I threaten to take her gifts back...... then she tells ONLY .... that I was going to remove the gifts.. to the others. She doesnt tell what inspired me to want to remove the gifts.When I went to college she said" Its a whim, you will drop out in a year" If I have any disagreements with a sibling she defends them fiercely, and belittles me.I am diabetic, and when I first found out I was taking meds that lowered my blood sugar..to a dangerously low level . told her this and her only response was " WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT IT???" snarely. Last weekend I sold stuff out of my storage unit at a sale. It sold extremely cheaply. I said " I should have burnt it, rather than give it away She said" Thats stupid!!!"" I am not even allowed to have feelings. They are invalidated. After years and years of this .and absolutely no support ... and trying to talk to her , but having her refuse... I HAVE LEFT THE HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!