If someone told me to no matter how bad I wanted to do it I wouldn't do it just to spite them. Sometimes I think spite is the only reason I'm still here. My heart goes out to you. No one should have to deal with people like that.

I admit I am a bitter spiteful person but the last time my mom told me that my response was "Nope I want to live long enough to put you in the most abusive worst hellhole of a nursing home I can find. I hope they make your final years as happy as you made my childhood." Then I smiled sweetly said I love you and walked out. Yes I know I'm a bad person but god it felt good to say it.