Nothing as that is not really the therapists job, I'd be one of multiple patients/clients they see...why should they have special feelings of genuine love or care for me specifically when I am just another client? I guess another thing is i wouldn't particularly value that kind of thing from a therapist, I'd want more practical help with mental problems I have...which admittedly I have not succeeded in finding such therapy yet. The last thing I want is to have to worry about some emotional bond between me and a therapist to maintain...I already have enough people in my life more in the close friend/family category for that, not that I mind but yeah I don't need to concern myself with that when it comes to a therapist.

It is nice if they get along with me and care about my well being in the since that they will provide the best therapy they can and not half ***** it...but genuine love or care for me would seem a little over the top and I might start wondering what it is they 'really' want from me.