This was my first time reading this thread...

i'm sorry i'm sorry for what your t did to you. i can't imagine trusting a t that long only to have him groom and use you. i've seen my t for 5 years and there are many times i'm grateful he's ethical because i realize how vulnerable i've been with him and how he could use that against me for his own satisfaction.

i'm also sorry to hear about your husband. i don't think many people understand the strange dynamic of therapy. it's taken me a long while to realize that he really does have power over me and that's really through reading on this board and realizing the experiences people have gone through