It's a crazy relationship. It's a crazy-making relationship. What's even crazier is that it helps to talk about it with your therapist. Then, when you think about it, it's just simply human nature to want their to me more with the person sitting across from you. They can be kind. Who wouldn't want more of that kindness?

It really can be the most bizarre thing in the world, but in some therapies (like mine) it was absolutely normal and necessary for me to feel that way and understand those feelings.