I am on the side of caring with AncientMelody.. OMG, if my T ever said something like that to me, I would probably finally not be able to hold the tears back anymore. To think that someone cared enough to say that would be overwhelming. Still don't know that I could get my mind to believe it were true though. I would rationalize the million other reasons it were said to me or what it might have really ment, but man it would be nice to fantasize that someone really did care like that... oh to dream.. LOL