None of us are the one born although I think she is in there somewhere. We have a similar experience except we don't have names. We are who we are when we are out. We answer to the originals name. We understand the body as it's own self apart from us in consciousness. Having it's own consciousness. It was very difficult in the beginning of therapy because we kept trying to understand our diagnosis as being a part of one core consciousness. Once we realized that is not the case as we began to learn more about our system. Putting this in writing sounds so farfetched but it is how we understand ourselves to be.