I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I love her, I love her family, and we have a pretty solid relationship. Only problem is, she is stubborn as a bull and completely irresponsible. She spends her entire paycheck on weed and clothes. When I suggest that she might save her money, as we're hoping to get our own place in the near future, she gets offended. It's not my place to tell her how to spend her money, she says. Which is true, but she accepts no responsibility for her actions. She's also very selfish; your typical girly girl. She's a big talker, and by that I mean she never stops talking, even to other people. She likes to be pampered with daily backrubs, presents, all that stuff. I'm a nice guy so I try to spoil her the best I can, but something's got to give. It's a completely one-sided relationship. I'm her doting, breadwinning, fixer boyfriend, and she's sitting there stagnant. That's how I feel, anyway. I've been considering leaving the relationship, but I just can't do it. She's everything to me and I don't want to lose something over something that some might consider trivial. You don't know what you've got until it's gone, right? So I'm wondering if this is a common relationship problem, or if I'm just being an asshole (pardon my french).