The group wouldn't be a loss, the girlfriend is a loss because she's ghr first one I've let into my life in a very long time. The reason being is that girls do things like this!!! They get all crazy and emotional over nothing. But on my compassionate and less irritated side, I do feel bad for her and understand. She has everything in the world money could buy, but is alone and doesn't feel she will ever have a man that she is physically attracted to and is a good man.
So of course she would feel this way about my Husband, he is all those things. But if he were single, she would never be in his line of site.... So I feel she has taken his flirty and physical personality out of context and taken advantage of our comfort around her. In being able to laugh and flirt and not be worried about high school crap like this.
Sorry off on another rant of sorts. It's just all a lot and putting it on paper helps.