As an adult who is BP, and having a mother who was and didn't know, I understand both sides. My mother attempted suicide many times and was hospitalized well over a dozen times, many times for longer that 72 hrs. I could deal with her depression, my father had to deal with her spending sprees. Over the years, her suicide attempts got to me. Made me depressed. The hospitals would help, but after she would start messing with her meds. Through it all, I love her.

Your family loves you. No one can replace you. Be as well as you can be, and let your family know you are doing the best you can. It makes a huge difference. I remember the day my mom gave up trying to be the best she could. That hurt more than anything.