Update!

Army guy and I have been talking on fb. Now, he tells me that I have to give him a reason to want to be with me saying he doesn't wanna wait around for a woman who doesn't appreciate what's in front of her. Yea, I was blown away by that comment! I am like where is this coming from?!? I said to him you confessed your love for me, now you want me to give you a reason to be with me? You already confessed and did tell him I'd like to be with him in the future if things go wrong with my bf.

He's making it sound like I am being wishy washy and reading that msg on fb, I am like who is being the pushy one?!? I get his military and man's point of view, but he needs to see it from a woman's pov too. Someone on here said something about the army guy not respecting people's relationships and if I pursue him, the grass may not be green like I seem to think. Now, my bf and the army guy are at it they are texting each other.

It seems Army guy wanted me to cheat on my bf with him since we did a lot of kissing and almost got in bed. Army guy told me if I don't give him an answer asap when he gets back into town he will either get stationed in another state or country and find someone else told him how could you drop your love feelings for me to go be with another woman? You had these feelings for so long how could you be happy with someone else? Yea, I am having 2nd thoughts about Army guy. He said you're not cheating on your boyfriend at first he said don't keep me waiting on whatever your decision is to now I need an answer. He told me you have the time I left AZ to when I get back.

It seemed like I went head over hills for Army guy thinking we could start over again. Yea, I broke down and told my bf everything earlier today before I went to work. I read what Army guy wrote him, I told Army Guy I appreciate your concern for me and have told him to stay out of my biz whether he agrees with what I am doing or not I don't pry into his biz! My bf told me why is Army guy romancing another man's woman? Why can't he find his own?

Told him Army guy whatever happens between my bf and I has nothing to do with you. You are not his prob and he is not yours either. Army guy told me how he felt about my relationship with my bf and asked him are you Dr. Phil or something? Yes, I caused damaged to my boyfriend and admitted it to him. My bf told him now by text how Army guy has no morals and hasn't changed like he claims bf told me see he could say anything to get into your pants.

Like my coworker told me, we are all tempted! I also felt like he insulted my kissing towards him sounds like I was about to date a Sheldon Cooper from Big Bang! not my style