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Old Oct 10, 2014, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted by zinco14532323 View Post
Rejection sucks. Hits to the core.

I think the strategy of not basing your happiness, self worth, value, etc. on outside things is the best. Its an inside job. Relationships, jobs, money, friends, come and go.
You're absolutely right!

I know that. But since I'm just about to get out of a severe depressive episode it's sort of a hard job. I am willing to take everything as a means to be better even if it is temporary. this is what I did and here it ends. so I am forced to face the much harder job to be okay without anything specific to make me happy.
Just lacking some strategy here. I think I made quite some progress with CBT. but this is a crisis!
I would so much love to ask my therapist for help right now but my next appointment is only next week. so I need to find out how to deal with this myself for now.
any advice appreciated.
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