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Originally Posted by Brintel
Don't waste your feelings on a guy who was a nerd to begin with. There are so many complicated variables involved in making two people click that it never makes sense to blame oneself (unless one is a jerk to other people, but jerks never ask the kinds of questions you're asking). It was a matter of lack of readiness and the wrong kind of capacity on his part. As far as you are concerned, he never knew what he had.
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I'm not sure if I can even say something like that. Saying he was a nerd and that I was somewhat more attractive is both extremely offensive and arrogant. Someone else may think differently. I just said it because it describes how I felt about it. And i'm not sure what that means. It may be that i choose people by whom I dont expect to be rejected just to make myself feel like there is a general chance for me to be lucky. But it hurts even more if it doesn't work.