norwegianwoman,

Although I suffer from the same but I will just give some comments.

You are a real person, not a fake one, fake people usually catch other people in an easier way vice versa for the real people, just respect being real and clear personality.

I am a male, and I see that topic is really easier for a female, you will usually find many other guys are flirting and interested in you, just give the chance to someone who you think is kind and good person disregarding his look.

Never feel stupid because you don't find love like your friends, you are good person, kind and lovely, trust your self and have self confidence, you will find someone who will love you honestly and deeply, believe me it will happen.

Being single is a miserable feeling, my last relationship ended exactly two years ago.

I hope that we listen to the opinion of Christina

Good luck and cheer up.