If you thought your T could possibly be in danger, but would have to admit you know more personal (public) information about their life, would you tell them? Say you know T has a restraining order against someone, and that someone is driving across the country to "interrogate the ******** out of his "family," Well, she is within that family....and she has a restraining order against him....for what reason, I don't know.

This is all public info, and I research people/businesses/etc very well before I use them. Which is how I found out about the restraining order.

The thought of admitting this to her raises my anxiety level...don't want her to think I'm creepy and stalking her....

And perhaps it's not HER he's planning to interrogate. Or maybe he's just talking big. But makes me wonder....who would admit to knowing this info and tell her, and who wouldn't?